Gays' Role In Big Brothers, Big Sisters Argued
Tancredo Doesn't Want Gays To Mentor Children
POSTED: 7:30 a.m. MST November 20, 2002
UPDATED: 2:18 p.m. MST November 20, 2002
WASHINGTON -- A handful of Republican congressmen asked
President George W. Bush on Tuesday to pressure Big Brothers and Big Sisters
of America to abandon a policy requiring its mentoring programs not
to discriminate against gays and lesbians.
Bush is an honorary co-chairman of the organization.
The nine representatives, led by Rep. Tom Tancredo, R-Colo.,
said the national antidiscrimination rule forces local Big
Brothers and Big Sisters affiliates to accept gay and lesbian
mentors, without giving parents a say.
"Many of these kids are emotionally fragile and desperate for
attention and affirmation from an adult of their own gender," the
congressmen wrote. "The new policy ignores the psychological
research and common-sense. As a general rule of thumb, Big Brothers
doesn't match up adult men with teenage girls. Obviously, that would
set up a risky situation that could lead to sexual abuse."
The letter also referred to recent abuse allegations against a
Big Brothers and Big Sisters mentor in Ohio.
Winnie Stachelberg, political director for the Human Rights
Campaign, a gay and lesbian rights advocacy group, said sexual
orientation does not affect a person's ability to mentor an at-risk
youth and is not a factor in abuse.
"Representative Tancredo and his associates are spreading
misinformation in an attempt to smear innocent members of the gay
and lesbian community," Stachelberg said in a statement.
White House spokesman Scott Stanzel said the president had not
received the letter and could not comment. A spokeswoman for Big
Brothers and Big Sisters could not be reached.
In addition to Tancredo, the letter was signed by Republican
Reps. Chris Smith of New Jersey, Joseph Pitts of Pennsylvania,
Ernest Istook and John Sullivan of Oklahoma, John Hostettler of
Indiana, Bob Schaffer of Colorado, Jim Ryun of Kansas and Brian
Kerns of Indiana.
The letter echoed complaints in recent months from conservative
pro-family and religious organizations about the mentoring policy.
The 98-year-old organization had encouraged nondiscrimination
policies for 25 years, but in July made the policies
mandatory for all of its affiliates.
Big Brothers and Big Sisters pairs 220,000 children a year with
mentors.
Tancredo, who has made a name for himself by being critical of illegal immigrants, recently demanding that an honor student featured in the Denver Post be immediately deported.
"Since Tom Tancredo is using his position as a leader of the Republican Party to advocate this kind of prejudice, I am concerned about who he will target next," said Boulder state senator Ron Tupa. "He's already gone after immigrants, and now gays and lesbians. My question is: who's next? Single moms? College students? The disabled?"
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Bush is an honorary co-chairman of the organization.
The nine representatives, led by Rep. Tom Tancredo, R-Colo.,
said the national antidiscrimination rule forces local Big
Brothers and Big Sisters affiliates to accept gay and lesbian
mentors, without giving parents a say.
"Many of these kids are emotionally fragile and desperate for
attention and affirmation from an adult of their own gender," the
congressmen wrote. "The new policy ignores the psychological
research and common-sense. As a general rule of thumb, Big Brothers
doesn't match up adult men with teenage girls. Obviously, that would
set up a risky situation that could lead to sexual abuse."
The letter also referred to recent abuse allegations against a
Big Brothers and Big Sisters mentor in Ohio.
Winnie Stachelberg, political director for the Human Rights
Campaign, a gay and lesbian rights advocacy group, said sexual
orientation does not affect a person's ability to mentor an at-risk
youth and is not a factor in abuse.
"Representative Tancredo and his associates are spreading
misinformation in an attempt to smear innocent members of the gay
and lesbian community," Stachelberg said in a statement.
White House spokesman Scott Stanzel said the president had not
received the letter and could not comment. A spokeswoman for Big
Brothers and Big Sisters could not be reached.
In addition to Tancredo, the letter was signed by Republican
Reps. Chris Smith of New Jersey, Joseph Pitts of Pennsylvania,
Ernest Istook and John Sullivan of Oklahoma, John Hostettler of
Indiana, Bob Schaffer of Colorado, Jim Ryun of Kansas and Brian
Kerns of Indiana.
The letter echoed complaints in recent months from conservative
pro-family and religious organizations about the mentoring policy.
The 98-year-old organization had encouraged nondiscrimination
policies for 25 years, but in July made the policies
mandatory for all of its affiliates.
Big Brothers and Big Sisters pairs 220,000 children a year with
mentors.
Tancredo, who has made a name for himself by being critical of illegal immigrants, recently demanding that an honor student featured in the Denver Post be immediately deported.
"Since Tom Tancredo is using his position as a leader of the Republican Party to advocate this kind of prejudice, I am concerned about who he will target next," said Boulder state senator Ron Tupa. "He's already gone after immigrants, and now gays and lesbians. My question is: who's next? Single moms? College students? The disabled?"
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Previous Stories:
- October 18, 2002: Tancredo Says Deport Those Waiting For Mexican ID Cards
- October 1, 2002: Tancredo Won't Talk To Newspaper Reporters Any More
- September 25, 2002: Tancredo Won't Honor Term-Limits Pledge
- September 16, 2002:
Honor Student Faces Deportation - September 16, 2002: Christian Group Opposes Anti-Gay Protests
- July 16, 2002: Councilwoman Boycotts Boy Scouts Over Gay Stance
- March 15, 2002:
Proposed Bill Targets Gay Parenting - February 8, 2002: Teen Pleads Guilty In Fatal Gay Beating
- August 14, 2001: Gay Teen Murder Charges Upgraded
- August 2, 2001: CU Proposal: Gay Couples Must Register
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