TheDenverChannel.com









Denver News
E-Mail News Alerts
Get breaking news and daily headlines.
Browse all e-mail newsletters

Gays' Role In Big Brothers, Big Sisters Argued

Tancredo Doesn't Want Gays To Mentor Children

POSTED: 7:30 a.m. MST November 20, 2002
UPDATED: 2:18 p.m. MST November 20, 2002

A handful of Republican congressmen asked President George W. Bush on Tuesday to pressure Big Brothers and Big Sisters of America to abandon a policy requiring its mentoring programs not to discriminate against gays and lesbians.

Big Brothers Big Sisters of America  logo

Bush is an honorary co-chairman of the organization.

The nine representatives, led by Rep. Tom Tancredo, R-Colo., said the national antidiscrimination rule forces local Big Brothers and Big Sisters affiliates to accept gay and lesbian mentors, without giving parents a say.

"Many of these kids are emotionally fragile and desperate for attention and affirmation from an adult of their own gender," the congressmen wrote. "The new policy ignores the psychological research and common-sense. As a general rule of thumb, Big Brothers doesn't match up adult men with teenage girls. Obviously, that would set up a risky situation that could lead to sexual abuse."

The letter also referred to recent abuse allegations against a Big Brothers and Big Sisters mentor in Ohio.

 SURVEY
Should gay men and women be allowed to mentor children in the Big Brothers and Big Sisters programs?
Yes. If they pass the organization's screening process and are enthusiastic about mentoring children, why not?
No. They are not proper role models.
Parents should have a say.

Winnie Stachelberg, political director for the Human Rights Campaign, a gay and lesbian rights advocacy group, said sexual orientation does not affect a person's ability to mentor an at-risk youth and is not a factor in abuse.

"Representative Tancredo and his associates are spreading misinformation in an attempt to smear innocent members of the gay and lesbian community," Stachelberg said in a statement.

White House spokesman Scott Stanzel said the president had not received the letter and could not comment. A spokeswoman for Big Brothers and Big Sisters could not be reached.

In addition to Tancredo, the letter was signed by Republican Reps. Chris Smith of New Jersey, Joseph Pitts of Pennsylvania, Ernest Istook and John Sullivan of Oklahoma, John Hostettler of Indiana, Bob Schaffer of Colorado, Jim Ryun of Kansas and Brian Kerns of Indiana.

The letter echoed complaints in recent months from conservative pro-family and religious organizations about the mentoring policy. The 98-year-old organization had encouraged nondiscrimination policies for 25 years, but in July made the policies mandatory for all of its affiliates.

Big Brothers and Big Sisters pairs 220,000 children a year with mentors.

Tancredo, who has made a name for himself by being critical of illegal immigrants, recently demanding that an honor student featured in the Denver Post be immediately deported.

"Since Tom Tancredo is using his position as a leader of the Republican Party to advocate this kind of prejudice, I am concerned about who he will target next," said Boulder state senator Ron Tupa. "He's already gone after immigrants, and now gays and lesbians. My question is: who's next? Single moms? College students? The disabled?"

More Information


Links We Like
Sponsored Content
You can pick your friends, but not your family -- or your neighbors. Here's what you need to know about how to deal with yours. More

Find out what a sputtering economy and an increasingly difficult to crack job market means to you. More

Are you often tired or rushed in the morning? Give your morning habits a makeover, and start the day feeling positive and energetic instead. More

If you're looking to save on your next new vehicle, a low sticker price is just one aspect. Consider all the costs and make the right decision. More

MyReport Network

E - News Registration focus group
  My Report Network: Tell your story on 7NEWS. Sign up to be a member of our My Report Network
Sponsored Links

MyReport Network

E - News Registration focus group
  My Report Network: Tell your story on 7NEWS. Sign up to be a member of our My Report Network