Ladies, remember how nice your husband was to you before you got married? Granted, he may have been trying to get some action, but he sure was sweet.

He'd bring flowers, even if he had to pick them from your neighbor's yard; he'd prepare dinner, even if it came from a drive-thru window; he'd even open doors for you, even if he was just wanting to check you out. But now he's just mean.

Sometimes he threatens violence. One day he might strike you. But usually he's just mean.

And gentlemen, remember when your wife used to encourage your dreams and build up your ego. Now she crushes your dreams and stifles your desires. She won't even have sex anymore.

Life's too short to spend it with someone who's mean (or refuses to have sex).

Probability of Greater Self-Fulfillment without a Cruel Spouse or One That Refuses to Have Sex: High